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Kaitlyn Aquino • December 16, 2022

The Faces of Room 217 - Bev's Story

There is no denying that music brings people together. Regardless of age, gender or race, music is a force that connects us all. At Room 217, music and a desire to help others is what has brought us all here. Each face of Room 217 comes from a different background, bringing their own unique stories and experiences to achieve one common goal: to help others with music, just like every person who is touched by and touches others through Room 217. In the coming weeks you will get to meet the faces of Room 217. Here’s Bev’s story.

 

Meet Bev Foster. Bev is a co-founder of the Room 217 Foundation and its Executive Director. She is an experienced performer, songwriter and music educator. I asked her some questions about her life before Room 217 and how these experiences shaped the creation of Room 217.

 

Kaitlyn: How has music impacted your life?

 

Bev: Music has always been a part of my life. Mom said I began to pick out tunes on the piano when I was two. I was one of those kids that enjoyed taking piano lessons. I had amazing musical opportunities for growth at high school and in my church growing up.

 

Music helps me express myself, especially when I’m working something through. It becomes this emotional container for me to pour into, whether it is instrumentally on the piano, or when I write songs. And I have found that music can hold the whole palette from my joy to sorrow and everything in between.

 

Often, my songs hold universal meanings and others resonate with them. In this way, music helps me communicate with others. Music is an intrinsic part of my spiritual practice and is an essential part of how I serve my community. It has always been something we do – not just listen to – in our home. So I feel connected to my partner, kids, grandkids, and friends through the music we have shared together.

 

Kaitlyn: What did you do before Room 217?

 

Bev: Before Room 217, I was a music educator. I taught for the Durham District School Board in both elementary and high school, leading bands and choirs, and developed a keyboard lab. As our family grew, I moved out of school music education to a home studio working with children and adults. I also freelanced as musical director and accompanist with various choirs, churches and community groups around the GTA.

 

Kaitlyn: What led you to create Room 217?

 

Bev: When my dad was dying, music played a significant role in how I cared for him. In his last few days in a hospital room #217, music filled the space for my family, and it was how we were able to say goodbye to dad. That night, I left with two questions: Is there anything more powerful in life and death than music? Do caregivers have the resources they need to support their loved one with music?

 

These two questions continue to drive our work. We work not only with family caregivers, but professional caregivers like nurses, recreation therapists, administrators, and chaplains to provide music care training and designed music in order that they can more effectively integrate music into their regular practice.

 

Kaitlyn: Is there anything else you want others to know about you?

 

Bev: Although I’ve been working for more than 15 years now at developing the music care approach – that is the intentional use of music by anyone to improve health and well-being of self and others – we’ve just scratched the surface. My vision is to see music as care integrated and sustained in health and social care as a more primary approach, leveraging true relational and person-centered care. By working together with other stakeholders and practitioners who share this value I’m excited about the growing impact we can have together in changing the culture of care.

 

My key takeaway from Bev’s story is that one moment in time defined the importance of music in care spaces, and that through her own experiences, she has helped create this moment for others.

 

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