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Glenn Marais • September 29, 2022

To Feel is to Heal

Music is a convergence of notes, that vibrate with an energy that is connective and communicative with a power that transcends languages, culture and knowledge with a sublime beauty that can bring you to tears and to your feet to shout and dance in revelatory joy. One of the purest expressions of the human spirit that moves us collectively perhaps like no other art form that exists in the world. Picture the world holding candles and singing Imagine together to come together and heal after a tragic event, a couple dancing again to their wedding song fifty years later that are transported back to that very moment, in its feel and sublime beauty, a child, hearing his mother’s heartbeat that echoes through its body like a pow wow drum waking them to the wonder of the world and life. The extraordinary capacity of music to waken an elderly person from the tragic dormancy of dementia and enable them to sing every word, because it lives in the strongest part of their memory, their deepest and most profound connection to the glory, splendor and travails of life.

 

Music is universally acclaimed to possess an almost supernatural, hypnotic allure that is steeped in folklore and legend, Robert Johnson selling his soul at the crossroads in a deal with the devil that gave him his incredible talent, the voodoo rituals of Haiti that crossed into New Orleans and it’s Cajun rhythms of the South, the music from Africa that travelled on slave ships and grew from the field hollers to gospel, blues and country and rock and roll that changed the world. In the complexity of Jazz and classical music we marvel at the convergence of harmonic notes and melody that speak to the very wonder of the universe itself.

 

When we look back to our ethnographic roots, we find music in ritual and ceremony, steeped in traditions that supersede our modern understanding of 4/4 time and pop song simplicity and live deeply within us reminding us of our innate capacity to feel and be human. Ancient cultures wove music into the fabric of their lives that was beyond mere entertainment, but a reflection of life itself, celebrating birth, death, marriage, harvest, disaster and triumph. It was born of simple movements, a foot stomp, a clap, a shout to the heavens, shared with the love and depth of feeling that comes from ritual. This same depth of feeling we see in a Baptist Church or on the fields of a Pow Wow. The cry of the Pow Wow singer is like a thousand years of history, generations of families and stories intertwined around the rhythmic cadence that grips your heart and soul in a warm embrace. When I hear the sound of many hands in unison pounding the massive drum with all of their strength as if every hit is cleansing their very being, it is as if the entire Earth has moved. Perhaps it has, for this drum is a gift from the Earth mother and is blessed with the wisdom and love of the creator. In every chant I hear a voice from the past, loved ones come and gone, family circling around, warmth and love and acceptance of every frail part of humanity, glorious and broken. For that is love, a part of us that may have been in front of us our entire lives but perhaps obscured by doubt and fear. It is love that sets us free in that moment of acceptance of every part of ourselves. This is the healing. What we search for and hope for and what this most ancient of traditions offers if we will accept it, power, grace, beauty, hope and wonder at the majesty of life.

This year when we gather for healing and remembrance on Sep.30th, let us open our hearts to the healing power of tradition, open our minds to the beauty of culture, and grow together in this truth, so that we can work towards reconciliation and contribute willingly to the Indigenous resurgence that is a responsibility of citizenship and a moral obligation to humanity.
 


By Shelley Neal March 8, 2024
I initially trained with MUSIC CARE to work with Seniors in Long Term Care who were experiencing dementia and Alzheimer’s Disease. This is the path I travelled with my mom. My training with Music Care and Room 217 supported capacity building in selecting music that was played on my harp or chosen recorded music. The music centered on the care of the individual and their specific needs. My job was to determine the individual’s specific and select music to address these needs. The music selected helped to build community, support sleep, talk about life experiences, create a background landscape of sound, support connection to decrease isolation and loneliness, as well as coming alongside people dying. My training with Music Care helped me understand how to support people “where they were” physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Through using beat, tempo, melody, and timbre, I could cater the music and desired support required for individuals or small groups. My profession is teaching. I am a special education teacher and use music in my primary teaching as a method for learning, practicing language skills, transmitting information about science studies or math equations, as well as having fun and creating our own songs. My teacher toolkit married exceptionally well with the knowledge and skills provided by the Music Care Certification training. Recently, my work with students has involved individual programming for the medically fragile children and the palliative children. I use music (repeating the chorus several times) to engage and connect with the kiddos. We use music to "talk" about feelings (our communication is through eye gaze, eye blinks, and squeezing hands), and content material. I use music to enjoy our relationship of being together. At times, due to medication for seizures, my little ones can be very sleepy. I increase the tempo, engaging in tapping the beat on her hands and using silly action songs. The giggles and wiggles make it magical. I also use music to tell stories (my students have CVI, cortical vision impairment, so visual perception is difficult). This helps the child to engage in the story arch and adventures. Music is my conduit for reaching out and being with the students. Recently, I had the sacred journey of visiting one of my children in ICU at Sick Kids. I was invited to come to say "goodbye". A dear friend who was an ICU nurse in a different department told me (AKA, insisted) that I bring my harp with me. I wasn't sure if this would be appropriate for the family. However, with the permission of the mom, I bravely packed my harp up and took it to the Unit. It was a beautiful evening of talking with their mom and dad about how special their child was in my life. I played the kiddo's favorite songs and then ended with "The More We Get Together". The little one opened their eyes and stared at me. We hugged, and I left. They passed the next morning. I consider this time to be a sacred gift. Music Care Certification has given me the confidence and toolset to work alongside people and to journey together. It is a time a beautiful, difficult, or sacred time that I have been honoured to participate in.  Thank You
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